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After the birth of the heir, family and friends are all excited and curious to know the face of the new family member. Visits that end up not being as pleasant as they should be and becoming an exhausting marathon for the new mom who needs rest and for the little baby who needs peace and tranquility in our new routine. Therefore, among the thousands of modernities, a new method of presentation for family members was created, the presentation tea.
Only those who have passed through know how tiring it is to have just arrived from the maternity hospital and have to be willing to receive visitors , that is when they do not go to the hospital to know, do they? The postpartum woman is bloated, tired and needs rest to recover, in addition to the baby who is still in the process of adapting with his new life and habits outside the belly and everything can shake him. When the family is large, the marathon can extend for long days, generating even greater discomfort and discomfort !!
Thinking to remedy this situation, they developed a new method that simplifies this presentation, making it a moment of celebration, enjoyment and total celebration. The presentation tea as well as the revelation tea, is the moment to unite the family and reduce several days in a unique and incredible moment that will become unforgettable for everyone. In addition to the anxious wait of friends and family, the dads will be prepared for this moment and already feeling willing and willing to introduce their baby.
When and How to Make the Presentation Tea?
The presentation tea can be planned by the parents themselves even before the baby is born or by the grandparents , uncles and godparents who will prepare every detail so that the presentation takes place in the most special way possible. In the vast majority of cases, tea occurs from the second life of the baby, where the mother already feels more willing to receive people, in addition to the appearance that is already much better without the inevitable postpartum swelling.
The achievement will depend a lot on the size of the family and the amount of friends who would like to participate and meet the baby and of course if everyone would fit in the chosen space. Some couples choose to hold the presentation tea inside their home or apartment because it aims at the baby’s comfort and in the tranquility of the moment, without shaking and wearing down the small family member. Care with hygiene and noise and control in the amount of people who will enter the room to see the little one can also be controlled and the relay be done until all the guests can meet him in a pleasant way. After the presentation with all the guests, a tea with snacks should be served to the guests in another setting.
For couples with large families and many close friends, the suggestion is to hold the presentation tea in a lounge, buffet or space of your choice that suits the number of people. Always aiming at the comfort of the environment so that it meets the needs of the little baby, for example, environments with very strong air conditioning or poor ventilation, which end up not being suitable for a baby with days of birth and his health.
The decoration can be done according to the theme of the baby’s room decoration , a table with cake and sweets is enough to brighten up the environment and remember a festive moment. Snacks, snacks and appetizers are at the discretion of the family in choosing the ideal one for the moment and to your taste. Decorations with flower arrangements are not suitable for this moment, as flowers can cause allergies or damage the newborn’s sensitive nose.
In the invitation of the presentation tea, it is worth emphasizing the time and duration, so that the visits do not prolong or be delayed, generating unnecessary and clear tiredness to take advantage of every second of that moment. Usually this meeting lasts an average of 3 to 4 hours . And do not forget the souvenirs, which, as in the maternity or home visits, are essential to register the arrival of your baby and thank the person for their visit and kindness for their presence. Just like with birthday favors, you can choose something related to the decoration of the party, in this case with the decoration of the baby’s room .
Picture frames with the baby’s photo or small flower pots with the name and date of birth can decorate the souvenir table and please each visitor, who will take and use it with great love. This as well as the baby shower and all the events held for the baby, must be registered, performed and enjoyed with a lot of love !!
See also: Visits to the Newborn – Basic Manual of Etiquette
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.
