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Guys, I opened my life here for you who accompany me and also the girls who are arriving now, and a subject that I saw frequently in the cultural contest, was about abortion. Few people in my cycle of friends today know, or those who have been friends for many years or even close relatives know that in the year 2000 I lost a baby at 11 weeks of gestation . For me it was very difficult to overcome and even when I got pregnant with my eldest daughter, the fears came back, then I thought, will it all happen again Will it be, will it be … But God kept his promise and gave me this beautiful girl who is now almost a teenager.
Good but what causes abortion? What is natural selection, how to deal with this situation … Everything is very strange, when I received the news I didn’t believe it, it seemed like it was a nightmare, there in the lying room and a little groggy without being able to do anything, I felt helpless. I didn’t have the courage to ask the doctor about it, it was a feeling of emptiness and helplessness.
Why Spontaneous Abortion?
But why did you have the abortion at 11 weeks? It was already close to 3 full months, a period that is considered safer for pregnancy. Specifically for my situation, a hormonal drop was observed which maintains the pregnancy, and this caused the placenta to detach early. Of course, there are several factors that can interrupt pregnancy and some things influence a lot, they are external factors such as smoking, alcoholic beverages, drug use, but also factors such as chromosomal malformation, trauma (falls, accidents, very invasive procedures that expose the uterus as aminiocentesis eg).
Also maternal factors, such as incompetence, cervical isthmus, uterus with malformation, and many more. Abortion is not a pleasant situation, after all, a pregnant woman losing her child is one of the worst pains that a woman can go through, but no pregnancy is the same as another, I say from experience, God writes right on crooked lines, and pain with time becomes a longing, longing for someone we didn’t even know, but who already loved a lot…
See also: Pregnancy After Miscarriage – When to Resume Attempts?
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.
