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Positive! If we could get into the head of a woman who really, really wants to get pregnant, the word we would find in the first place would be exactly that. In theory, wanting a son a lot would not imply so many maneuvers for that, would it? Whoever said that it was enough to date to get pregnant was completely wrong. The other day I heard that phrase …
“Blogger of website for those who want to get pregnant? But isn’t it just about having relationships? ”
Is that how it works, dear tempting friend? Is it really that easy and we allow ourselves to suffer before the deadline for such a wait for the stork? Perhaps it is not so for those who have an intense relationship with someone or who live closely with couples and women who want to get pregnant so much and without success.
The tempting world came into my life without me even realizing it, and certainly in most women who want to get pregnant too. The will comes little by little, sometimes so sneakily that we don’t even notice and when it comes to itself, it is already here in full swing. In my mother’s time, those who did not get pregnant were labeled dry, unhappy, poor thing. Nowadays thanks to advanced medicine and treatments, we have the highest fertility rate in advanced ages in history, however, not everyone can have the privilege of being able to use these advanced procedures. And there? The head of someone who wants to get pregnant is simply at the mercy of cycles that seem like an eternity, of the time that runs against us and sometimes of little information that we have about the subject and even the sabotage that our body does with our mind and vice versa.
<a href = “https://www.Wipesleep.com.br/wp-content/uploads/o-que-passa-na-cabeça-de-uma-tentante.jpg” Pregnant woman wants the positive for yesterday, but she knows in your heart that God’s will is above all, just the time comes that everything will happen.
In my years as a tentative and now as an ex-tentante (still active), I conclude that the temptants know what they want and idealize this event. How many times have I found myself thinking it would be so much easier to be the way I imagined when I was a child. “I’m going to get married and get pregnant two years later”, but in the vast majority of cases this is not quite the case. Unfortunately many women have to face a marathon of exams, problems, medications and procedures so that in a while, I can finally say – I’m pregnant!
The feeling of seeing friends, sisters-in-law, relatives and many people around getting pregnant and people who want to stay behind so much, can make it seem that the wait is even greater. Who never caught up with that envy of someone’s positive? I often found myself wishing I was in the shoes of a friend who just got her positive dream … It was inevitable and I felt terrible about it.
It was also inevitable to think that I would never make it and that all the waiting was in vain and that everyone around me would fulfill the dream of having a baby in her arms and I would be there forever trying and trying for cycles, years on end always on expectation and failure as a result. Did I not deserve to have a baby of mine? I cried for thinking that I would never make it, with each negative that came it was as if the world fell on my shoulders and I am sure that it is also so with you. Although some women who are tempting are patient, tolerant, who have a lot of faith, who know that God is preparing the best for us, waiting is not a pleasant task but it is necessary.
The truth is that tempting wants his positive for yesterday and wants it the way he dreamed. Sometimes it comes in fright, but a very tasty fright believe me! It was like that with me, there were three wonderful scares that I still remember today…
How to work around the problems?
But how to get around this waiting phase that ends up becoming torture for many? How to reassure the head of a temptress in times of anguish? Is there a secret to being more at ease during this process of trying? The secret to being calmer and not letting anxiety take hold is knowing the cycle . We have always heard of the fertile period, luteal phase, but in-depth knowledge of the body makes all the difference. At least knowing yourself, knowing when things happen and how they happen, resolves in 70% of the attempted chronic anxiety cases .
Another secret that also works miracles is the help of a friend who understands you, that’s why it’s so good to have a close friend to support you in times of weakness. In those moments when everything seems to stop and even the training days are ignored for fear of a new failed attempt. Temptant seems to be fragile doesn’t it? But it is not! Temptant is the most warrior race of women! Do you know why? Because she knows what she wants, she struggles to make it happen. Suffers, smiles, vibrates, has hopes, loses hope but still, he keeps coming back! It is tempting to be a warrior and whoever just tries is like that, surely she will be a mother lioness, one of those who lick her child and do everything for her.
Every temptant deserves to be a mother, pray and ask God to send your miracle at the right time. As God said to his children: Do your part, I will do mine.
See also: Confession of the Tentant’s Life – The Pain of Waiting
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.
