Today’s guest is Dr. Debora Pádua, a physiotherapist and sex educator. She explains a little more how to spice up the relationship of a tempting couple so that the training is not so “massive”. What are the secrets to keep the flame of sex always burning? How to date without thinking about getting pregnant?
Changing Diapers: After being married, sex can become a routine. How can the couple spice up the relationship between four walls?
Debora: It is very easy for sex to become routine because you know that your partner will be there by your side every day, but don’t let this thought take over you. Experiencing different positions, planning a romantic or even sensual night can make all the difference, if something goes wrong the most will be a good laugh and a great memory in the end. People are afraid to look ridiculous to their partner and therefore stop having fun. Dare and don’t be afraid!
Changing Diapers: What can a woman do to keep sex from training (to get pregnant) looking like she should be in the fertile period?
Debora: The time to get pregnant should be the result of a wonderful night of love and not having sex to get pregnant. Have fun in this very special moment, wear a different lingerie, play with your partner, have wonderful moments of foreplay and at the moment of penetration try to focus on pleasure and not on the act.If you aim to feel pleasure, most likely the consequence will be a baby!
Changing Diapers: What about when the husband is very tired at the time of the fertile period? What is the best thing to do at this time?
Debora: It will certainly excite you without putting pressure on you. Get a massage that can start with relaxing and then give exciting stimuli. A sensual dance can also help you remember that sex will be good for both of you, but don’t forget that good sex will result in a baby.
Changing Diapers: The frustration of not getting pregnant can greatly affect the couple’s relationship with a pressure that remains in the air. How to deal with this phase and make the climate lighter?
Debora: When the woman puts it as the only focus of life to get pregnant, she gets anxious and unfortunately makes the situation worse because fights happen and everything that shouldn’t happen at this very special moment happens, except pregnancy. If you want to get pregnant and realize that this goal is taking your thoughts a lot, try to change the focus, plan a trip, go for a coffee with friends and chat, make other plans like a gym class that will decrease your anxiety and you will be taking care of your health for when the baby comes!
Changing Diapers: Tricks to seduce the husband without letting the relationship fall into the routine.
Debora: The woman is able to be sensual from the moment she wakes up, lounging in bed, wrapped in a bath towel or even changing clothes, you can seduce him with small details like a different waxing, sexier lingerie or a movie. more erotic.
Changing Diapers: Some foods or toys that can be used to increase libido
Debora: Erotic toys can be great allies especially for women who take a little longer to get excited. The clitoral vibrators are excellent because they are small, feminine and do not cause a sensation of competition with the partner’s penis and can cause wonders when the woman learns to use it.
Changing Diapers: An advice for those who want to get pregnant and are stuck only during the fertile period to have sex.
Debora: Make your pregnancy the result of a wonderful sex life and the baby will surely come!
Dra Debora Talks more about sexuality and other subjects on your website www.vaginismo.com.br/ Thank you so much for participating Dra Debora!