Are you tempting? Then this post is totally dedicated to you! Temptants are women who desperately want to be responsible for the greatest love that a person can feel in life: motherly love! But things do not always go as imagined and there, difficulties begin to appear, frustrations arrive, negatives, waiting, the anguish that a million feelings mixed in a whirlwind bring …
To tell you the truth, to be tempting is to give the face to hit! Have you ever tried telling someone who doesn’t want children or who already have them, that you’re trying to have children? At the very least, they will be classified as crazy or inconsequential, even without judgment, after all, why put more people in this world? Attempts are misunderstood by those who have never had this absurd desire to generate in their womb or even to love someone to call their son, even if they are born only in their hearts.
However, the bad part is very obvious, it is wide open for anyone who wants to see it. There are many groups on Facebook, where women of all ages, with or without children, talk about the difficulties of waiting for their turn to finally come. To better understand it, just stop by, or even see how hard the wait is right here in the comments of the posts on the Trocando Fraldas website. But one thing almost nobody talks about: The weapons that a tempting woman has in her hands to help realize her dream of becoming a mother! So how about focusing a little on the benefits of wanting a child so much and not the bad part of the story ? Come on!
The Weapons of a Temptant
Did you know that it can be the biggest weapon you could count on in these moments of getting pregnant? True, neither a thermometer, an ovulation test, nor a gel, or anything is as effective as yourself! Knowing your body well makes all the difference when you want to get pregnant so badly. Knowing your cycle, your mucus, your temperature, knowing when you are in the fertile period or during a cycle without ovulation is very important, much more than any other means of discovering fertility. It is useless to have more than 100 tests stocked at home when the most important, the main one I would say, not knowing when to start doing! So in addition to knowing your body well, studying a lot about it is very important.
The main way to get to know each other is gradually. It is not overnight that knowledge arrives! You have to start paying attention to your ovulation symptoms, when they start to happen, the duration of your cycle, the duration of your ovulatory phase, the duration of the post-ovulation phase, in short, getting to know your body. This process of self-knowledge if you have not been aware for a while, can take a few cycles, in fact knowing yourself never ends. It is necessary to know that each cycle can be different from the previous one, sometimes ovulating at different times, before or after, sometimes not ovulating! That’s why learning to know yourself before anything is so importantbefore starting to use the allies that are there, available to anyone who wants to get pregnant so badly. The main weapons that the tentant can count are also:
Ovulation tests : Start doing it 1 day before the beginning of the fertile period. This way you will see the progression of the line and monitor your positive closely. As below:
The fertility-friendly gel : Conceive or Pré Seed are excellent friends of the woman’s vagina! When mucus is insufficient, it contributes to the survival of sperm within the body!
Basal temperature: Excellent woman friend! With the help of a thermometer , the temperature is possible to see when the hormones are active and when the woman is ovulating, post ovulation, and if there are even possibilities for a pregnancy!
You also have to keep in mind that sometimes, it can take up to more than a year to get a positive even if everything is right with you or your partner. In fact, knowing that the burden of getting or not getting pregnant is not just yours , it is essential! Pregnancy is an event and also a shared phase, 50% for each of the couple seen . Don’t take all the responsibility for yourself! In fact, husbands, boyfriends or partners who refuse to undergo fertility tests because they think they are very fertile (sometimes they already have children), are wrong about their condition, because a man can have fertility problems at any stage of life! You do have to do fertility research, even if you need to use your female persuasive power to do so.
Anyway, knowing yourself is your best and greatest weapon, dear tentative. Do not let the falls of this phase make you give up, because it is with time that everything starts to make sense and things, however difficult they seem, start to become simpler. Let your instinct speak and enjoy the moment of training. After all, a child must be conceived with a lot of love, care and dedication. Pregnancy must be the fruit of the love that exists between two people.
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.