Mother Solo – Dedication Without Limits

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A new term used for single mothers, single mother has been widely used in conversations and mainly in social networks even as a hashtag after outburst of warrior mothers who take on the arduous task of raising a child alone. Being a mother is already synonymous with total love and dedication, but being a single, alone, single mother goes far beyond all the dedication that a human being can give to another, dedicating 100% is not a task for anyone.

Raising, educating, meeting needs, being present and dedicating, these are some points of responsibility for raising a child. These points are not easy for a couple to imagine for a woman alone! In some more isolated cases I would say, being a solo mother is an option, but for the vast majority it is a situation required after the father’s abortion or the separation of the relationship where the man simply leaves the child’s daily life, at most fulfilling his alimony obligation and look there.

We know that in 90% of the cases, the amount paid for the children’s alimony cannot fully meet their needs. Making the mother also have to work hard so that she can support her child in a dignified way. The mother arrives at night, tired, her head worried about bills and all her responsibilities and she still has to be 100% available and attentive to her son , help him with homework, make food, bathe, take care of the house, clothes and everything else you need to do. And even with all these tasks she has to be a super mom, it is her obligation!

Uncle, grandpa, grandma, cousin and even father may be missing, but MOTHER NEVER CAN BE MISSING !! A mother is the one who makes her guts heart to see her child happy, even exhausted, sick, burning in fever, puts her pain aside and gets up to take care of her child with all love. It is not easy and not always tasty and charming like a margarine commercial, but a mother’s love wins and overcomes everything, especially if she is a solo mother. The dual responsibility of being a mother and father makes your claws even sharper, ensuring your child’s well-being and defending him as a lioness from all the evils around him.

Greatest Difficulties of a Solo Mother

There are several difficulties for a single mother throughout her education and upbringing. But some points stand out and end up being unanimous in the opinion of those who face this adventure alone. The first point is to meet all the child’s needs, whether financial or emotional. Everyone knows how expensive it is to live, how expensive it is to eat, how expensive it is to study , to dress and even for leisure.

This is the first complaint of single mothers, of the difficulty in supplying all this and still being the caretaker of the child’s health and education. Supporting a child and being 100% present is an arduous and complicated task, it requires a lot of women and in many cases it becomes stressful. Women are people, people of flesh and blood, they are tired, they get sick, they need a moment of their own and even if for a few minutes they need to disconnect from the world. But how do you do that as a solo mother?

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have a mother or family member who will help and offer a hand when needed. The vast majority face their task alone, with nails and teeth, facing all physical fatigue and emotional exhaustion with a single focus, to raise their child with all love. The second point of difficulty is in the division of tasks in the child’s daily life, since doing everything yourself and taking care of every detail is extremely exhausting. Having your father around to bathe, change a diaper or even interchange in the nights to get up makes all the difference. When they get sick then, we don’t even talk! Sick children need extra care, when you don’t have to run during the night to an emergency room and do it yourself, it’s really not easy!

The third point of complaint is loneliness! After the child sleeps he has no one to talk to, share his fears and joys and feel alone, as a woman. Some people cannot understand this point, since they have a child, they are not alone, right? But the emptiness in these cases is different, it is a lack of support and the desire to feel safe , someone to share the difficulties and think together to find the solution.

And the fourth complaint is that of prejudice and how does it exist? Since the world is a world, single mothers are frowned upon by society, as if it were their fault for raising a child alone. The question of why she is not with the child’s father and wanting to know what happened is so routine that many of the solo mothers end up losing patience. For this reason, spare a single mother from her questions, doubts and “thoughts”, the only one who knows what happened and what lives is who is in her own skin.

See also: How to Know Who is the Father of My Son?

Dr. Alexis Hart
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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.

Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

Dr. Alexis Hart

My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

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