One of these days I found myself thinking, what did I gain by being a temptress? For those who still do not know, tempting is the woman who wants to get pregnant a lot and for that she improves her life and menstrual cycle in favor of her dream. Tempting is a state of mind as I have said a few times, and also a warrior in search of her goal: the greatest love you can feel, being a mother! But in all these years of temptation, what did I realize that became a villain or what became the good guy in the life of someone who wants to have a baby?
First, I will talk about the difficulties. It is a way to show right away to those who are still in doubt to become a tentative officially that not everything is flowers … So the cons:
Anxiety: This goes a long way! Even more so in cases of tempters who already had problems dealing with it. Anxiety can become the biggest villain when it comes to pregnancy and fertility. The emotional, contrary to what many think, can actually disrupt the hormonal cycle. Imagine that a woman who is extremely anxious can have her period delayed! Reason: sentimental causes and all this is more common than we think.
Neurosis: The woman who monitors her cycle can become a kind of neurotic! Yes, you can start to feel things that don’t exist, imagine that you can never get pregnant… these are thoughts that make women much more distressed than normal (yes, it is normal to be distressed at this stage) and worsen the anxiety situation.
Compromise life for two: When you need to get pregnant, dating only on fertile days can put your marriage, unity at risk! Saving yourself only for the fertile period is very common among many women who are trying, but know that the search for a pregnancy should never interfere in the couple’s sexual life, not so much. The sex life must be maintained even if you are a couple of tempters.
Obsession : Pregnancy beyond purpose can also become an obsession! Living for that can leave your mood compromised and your day-to-day activities too. Of course, everything that is too much is bad, so being distracted, thinking about other things helps a lot to get pregnant. The old maxim that says: “The devil’s head empty workshop” is true, so doing physical activities, testing a delicious dish to please your husband and even occupying your mind with a good book, can make all the difference for tempting people.
The Pros of Temptant Life!
Now for the good part! It’s like a bat that bites its victim and then blows to relieve the pain! Rs Being tempting has more pros than cons! Life isn’t that bad, just dose it right ?! So let’s get to the flowers of this life.
Flirt: Is there anything better than making love to someone you love? This is for sure the best part of being tempting! The relationship when made very horny helps and a lot to conceive a baby in the fertile period. Sexual arousal also has to do with the fertile period, but nothing better than stimulating and much with foreplay. Sex in no hurry and why not the most ardent and quickest? Alternate according to the couple’s mood!
Knowledge: Never in my life have I learned so much about the body when I was trying! If you are the curious type who reads everything and searches everything on the medical site in search of answers to your questions, you are in my class. Knowledge is something that nobody will ever be able to take from you, and the more you learn about your cycle the better! Learn how to calculate your fertile period, get to know your mucus and the signs that your body gives that will do very well I guarantee!
Friends: How many and how many girls did I meet at that time … I don’t know for sure how many I’m talking about, but there are countless. All with different experiences but at the same time so similar to my story. Some with more severe problems like endometriosis, polycystic and severe infertility, but all together and united in favor of a common dream: to be a mother! Some are gone, it is true, but they became friends that I can say they are forever and that, that is priceless!
The positive is the best and biggest reward of all the feelings we may have in the tempting phase.
Self knowledge and faith: It is certain that at this stage you will know yourself more and better. It is as if you are experiencing a new way of exercising your patience and understanding that not everything depends on your will or is within your reach. It is a situation that while we can help we do not control. Control is in the hands of God’s greatest and best friend! So rest and trust in the good instruction he will give you and also in the time he has for you. What’s yours is saved, trust! Exercise your faith and be patient …
The positive: Being tempted has one more advantage and the biggest of all, when pregnancy happens there is no better or bigger reward! The emotion held back for months, cycles, and even years, comes up with the news … I will be mommy! The best of all is to shout at the seven winds and give the news to dad in a loving and emotional way. Only those who have passed through know the experience that it is and that it is worth every second of suffering with negatives and false hopes.
The secret to being a balanced attempt is to keep your feet on the ground. Control yourself when a symptom appears, as these naughty people tend to give false hope and also take the exam at the right time. Keep calm, control over the situation, date and enjoy sex without children, or even if you already have them (as was my case) it has to be full, sex, love, affection and dedication to the person who gives you will provide the most disappointing experience of your life, your companion!
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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.