I was trying to remember what it was like before I was a mother and I just couldn’t do it! Truth! I was remembering what it was like to get my first positive, how it was to see my baby by ultrasound for the first time … Nothing pays for those moments. I think that for those who seek pregnancy as I sought it becomes a moment of dreams really.
The other side also exists and I have also experienced it, when a pregnancy is not expected and suddenly we are pregnant it can be a shock initially and with the passing of time the fright the idea of having a baby can become pleasant until the great love it sprouts and then friend, that’s it! You were captured by the gift of being a woman, pregnancy, MATERNITY!
But doubts can be the most varied when it comes to motherhood, as life changes is a case for another post because it gives cloth to the sleeve. But as I said at each stage of the baby, the mother is melting and even with all the work that a baby provides, but the moments when those little eyes look at us with tenderness and love are priceless. I remember well when they took the babies out of me and all 3 without exception, calmed down when they heard my voice and my heartbeat and they were snuggled in my chest, smelling me… There is no more precious moment in mine a reminder that they compare to the birth of my children and when they recognized me as their mother.
The bonds between a mother and her child are immense and these are the strongest possible, and breastfeeding only confirms that love. The complicity in the baby’s eyes, the mother’s dedication to that moment is too valuable to put into words. Difficulties of everyday life? oh these pass and we even miss them! The woman is so versatile and strong that the maximum number of problems can become small, silly things when it comes to her children. Even when we become a real zombie due to bad nights or even sleeps, we do silly things like putting a dirty diaper inside the fridge instead of the trash just because she is dead asleep… lol still in those moments I wouldn’t change the maternity for nothing in this world.
The woman has the gift of being a lioness, protecting and taking care of her children in health and disease, in adversity and in moments of fun, so if you are still in doubt if you can handle it, you can be sure that every moment bad and difficulties are compensated with some of life’s greatest feelings, the love of a mother.
See also: Melissa’s Childbirth
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.