If taking care of a child is just a lot of work, imagine taking care of 2,3,4 or more with little age difference? Many women go through this, some by choice and choice to have a large family and others because they got pregnant in sequence many times by carelessness. But the great truth is that even if desired or not, the life of a mother with many small children is not easy!
Motherhood is a delight, but it obviously has its difficulties! For some, being able to follow each step of their child’s growth overcomes all their limits and barriers and makes all the bad parts fall into oblivion. For others, the good side is in balance with the bad and fails to romanticize the gift of motherhood like most women. But one thing is true, whether good or bad, facing with a different view or not, being a mother is a gift and regardless of the number of children you have, the mother will give 100% to do her best and take care of everyone with equality .
If with a child we sometimes freak out with the amount of “mommy” we hear, can you imagine with 2, 3 or more? Take care of food, bath, clothes, school enrollment and school meeting when the hours are practically together? What if they get sick together? It really isn’t a very easy routine, is it? In the past it was very common to see houses full, large families and the greater the number of children “step ladder” the better. However, nowadays not all couples wish to have large families, first because of their busy lives and practically no time to dedicate themselves to their children and second because of the difficulty of raising children today, due to the high costs of living and also of course due to the education issue.
But for those who have the dream of having a large family, any obstacle is lived and overcome with all love, guarantee mothers with many children! The house will never be silent, organization will happen with a lot of difficulty , tidying up another complicated task, but joy… .ahhh joy for sure there will always be, every day !! But there will also be fights between brothers, a lot of crying and complaining and after all are you prepared for that?
When we see a family photo with many adult children, it’s beautiful, isn’t it? But to think that to reach that moment the mother with many small children faced a great adventure. Diapers and more diapers, many sleepless nights, constant disagreements between brothers, inevitable jealousy, but he received all the love in the world, the love of his children!
Don’t You Have Television at Home?
All couples without exception who decide to have more than 2 children (considered the current standard) go through several questions, and are forced to listen to other people’s jokes and opinions about the number of children they have.They do not mind being rated as unpleasant or even invasive as education and spending with their children does not depend on the opinion of others. Some women when parading with their bellies in the third or fourth pregnancy manage to circumvent the “guess of others” and comments about how it will operate now, right? Others have no patience with this type of invasion! Who should make the decision whether to stop or not are the parents and nothing will change if the neighbor, the uncle, the sister-in-law or the mother-in-law thinks they have already crossed the limit in the number of children. Unless it is clear, that they depend on these people financially and to take care of the children.
The phrase “you don’t have a television at home” is heard a lot by dads “rabbits” as they are also named. However, to the point and willing to answer that they do something better while the person watches TV and takes care of other people’s lives . The number of children that a couple wants to have has nothing to do with the opinion of third parties and depends exclusively on their desire and conditions to be a father of 3, 6 or as many children as they wish. During the childhood of children it is really hard work, which requires a lot of patience and dedication, but as adults the parties in the house will be guaranteed with the certainty of a full table !!
See also: Mother with Many Little Children
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.