And when we are trying to get pregnant and the world around us seems to be all pregnant except us? It is a contradictory feeling and, I confess, on some occasions, I even felt bad for catching me thinking that it could have been my turn to have a baby. I think anyone who has been with me for some time knows that I struggled to get pregnant because of some health problems that my husband and I had. He with varicocele and I with my rebellious hormones that insisted on making my cycles completely crazy, hour with 30 days of cycle, hour with 70 days of cycle.
Well, on several occasions I read reports of girls who were also trying to get pregnant and I always encountered the same feelings that I had and identified myself with so much. If you are trying to get pregnant even for a short period of time, it will always beat that end of cycle anxiety, it is usual! Rs now, if you are the same type of tantalist that I was going to suffer a lot more! I was NEUROTIC! Interest! Today I laugh at the things I have done, another time I am ashamed of myself for having done certain adventures that only those who try to have a baby know how it is, I spent a lot of money on pregnancy tests.
It is a position like this, a roast position, from the side, from the back, legs up, cushion in the boom boom so as not to let the “little fish” out… iiii there are so many things that we try and do not always give the result that we expect in the end of the cycle, the long-awaited pregnancy. If I was told that hanging on the chandelier made me pregnant, I would do it! hahahahaha
I always heard from the most experienced: “when you relax you get pregnant!” damn phrase! But you know, today, looking cooler, that’s it. Of course, nothing prevents the woman from getting pregnant with the nerves on edge, but when we are calmer, with more time for other things, everything seems to flow better. Woman is funny animal! We talk about the most intimate things that can be in the body and without the least shame, I’ve heard so many things, I did the position like that, the roast position and look, female solidarity does exist!
There are several stories of these moments of relaxation, there are women who adopted and became pregnant soon after, others get the job of dreams and pimba! Others return to study and commit to the chores of college and then get pregnant. But how do you relax people ? this subject takes over the days and nights of those who want to get pregnant and in cases like mine it becomes a journey. We dream of the moment of the positive and despair, wondering what is wrong, because that moment never comes? A 28-day cycle seems like an eternity!
Sometimes I gave up, sometimes I despaired, sometimes I got frustrated, sometimes I cried and I always received affection from my friends, they were companions of feeling, companions of basal temperature , companions of anxiety and I say that without them I would not have been the same thing. I thank each one of them, and they know very well how hard it was for us. Most managed to get pregnant after a time of trying, others still haven’t succeeded, others are already trying again, either because they already have a baby or because they lost. But you know, all with the same feeling and the same noble objective, to carry for 9 months the greatest love that could exist in the world, to generate and give birth to become a MOTHER!
Never, never give up, no matter how difficult it may be , however complicated your case may seem, I know that someone much bigger is watching over us and will always give us the desired pregnancy, not always at the best time of course, but at the moment what he planned for us. And remember, feeling sick when the world around you is pregnant is more than normal! Your time will come, see ?!
Tempting good luck, may God watch over you and may you achieve the dream of becoming a mother as soon as possible.
I make room for all the coaches or the tempting, take your doubts, comment and support each other, this friendship is as important as water for a plant to become stronger. Always count on me, the eternal tempter!
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.