I want to get pregnant at the speed of light!

Why the hurry ladies? Why do we want to get pregnant so fast when the speed of light, a blink of an eye? It would be so good if you wanted to be able … If we could think about one day and get pregnant the next, wouldn’t it? But the body does not always follow the thought. I want to get pregnant, but what to do if it doesn’t happen?

The fact is that when we see a pregnant friend even “without meaning to” we find ourselves thinking and with a twinge of envy, desire to be in her place. What did she do to achieve her miracle and I, who want to get pregnant, still haven’t? Why do I have to wait so long and she never said anything, nor did she want to be a mother waiting for a baby? Haste is the enemy of perfection! At least, that’s what my mother says. Often in a hurry, we forget several details. Getting pregnant quickly requires some preparation and care before you even start trying.

To get pregnant, just stop taking the contraceptive and have sex, right? Wrong!

I have to remember, that the woman who wants to get pregnant, must surround herself with care before she stops preventing herself. I hit this button a lot because it is always necessary to remember that the woman’s health must be ok. Hormonal tests, ultrasound and even if possible, leave the exams of the husband, companion up to date as well. Do you know that friend who got pregnant by accident? She may have hormonal rates up to date and you want a baby so badly! Her husband \ boyfriend \ companion too. Therefore, the delay in getting pregnant must always be related to health. Let’s say that there are two valid theories, 50% of health in day and 50% of divine will.

Yes, friend, God’s will is a determining factor. It is no use having a hurry, wanting to get pregnant quickly and at the speed of light, if it is not the right time. It was like that with me! Caught me thinking, why can’t I? I spent more than 3 years trying the last pregnancy, and the second was another 3 years. In fact, it was 7 years waiting for the pregnancy that didn’t happen. Then one fine day, she came! Do you know when? Do you know how? When I didn’t even think about it anymore and look, it was the last two times. I was frustrated with life and even with children I didn’t understand the reason for so much waiting.

How Does A Frustrated Temptant Feel?

I think the worst of it is really frustration. It hurts, poisons and in a way chases us. On my scale list of the inconveniences of tentant life are:

Gold medal for frustration: There is no point in coming with this talk of a new cycle and a new chance, why not stick together! We feel defeated and annihilated. Same. I did everything right in this cycle, my God why didn’t it work? It wasn’t this time yet, where did I go wrong? How many times and how many times did I find myself thinking like that. When the test is negative or menstruation appears, it seems that a huge hole opens up under our feet. The feeling of failure can be so great that you give up, throw the towel over our heads. Some women actually give up for a while or just don’t want to hear about pregnancy anymore until then, by magic and not counting fertile daysand not even monitor the mucus, it happens! Is this irony of fate? Mere coincidence?

Silver Medal for Anxiety: Which temptation never caught on thinking about taking a test even before the delay happened? This damn anxiety can consume even the patience of those who hope for the positive. So it is much better to stay calm. That’s easy to say, right? I want to see it put into practice! Calm down my daughter! Can not? So do like me, have the money and time to do tests from 9 dpo on or pay an analyst to help reduce anxiety. If you do not have any of these means then I am sorry to inform you that all that remains is to wait and bite the rest of the nails that you have until the fateful day of the delay. Tempting life is not easy, my lady! Here is the tip for new and unsuspecting on duty.

Bronze medal for the wait: For most of the players, the wait may even move to the first position in the ranking, but for me it was not that serious. Waiting until it gives a certain charm to the tempting life. What you can’t do is freak out about the potato and want to advance the cycle just because you can’t wait. Not even God made the world in a single day … Easy! Wait for the fertile period, date and wait for the delay. Do not rush the test or rush to a beta even if that minimal bleeding is likely to be nesting.

Was it positive? Excellent! Now do a blood test to confirm and wait for the right time for the first ultrasound. Baby under 5 weeks may not appear in the ultra and then the concern comes and everything. If you have been trying for more than 2 years without success even with ok exams, it is recommended that you seek a good doctor to guide what to do. Sometimes it takes some more specific procedures and a good professional makes all the difference.

At the end of the day, it’s the usual chat. Be patient that your time will come. Keeping all exams up to date has become a catchphrase of mine, but they are necessary to show that your body is ready to get pregnant. Calm, focus, strength in the wig and a lot of faith! A leaf does not fall from the tree if God does not want it that way.

Good luck!

See also: Confession of the Tentant’s Life – The Pain of Waiting

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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.

Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

Dr. Alexis Hart

My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother. Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

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