Despair! That is the word that takes care of a woman who wants to get pregnant, wants to have a baby, and, despite so many attempts, she can’t. What goes on in the head of a couple who does everything and has not yet fulfilled the biggest dream of having a baby?
I want to get pregnant and I can’t! This phrase I hear (read) every day as an appeal from many anxious and anxious women. But what can be preventing this dream from happening?
Despite having relationships and everything else that is at your fingertips, pregnancy is a goal beyond this woman’s control. However, some small details at the time of sex, can help and a lot of conception happen.
Whoever has never heard of the butt lift is losing a precious ally! Raising the butt after intercourse makes sperm gain an advantage using gravity.
Leave pillows within reach of the room and ask your husband to help you immediately after ejaculation so that you don’t have to get up and lose this advantage. It is also very important that the woman who tries to get pregnant and cannot, be aware of her body.
Knowing how to identify the fertile period is essential! If you have regular cycles you are at an advantage! Usually the most fertile day is on the 14th day before the next menstruation, but remember that the fertile window is 7 days ok?
So try to have intercourse 3 days before and 3 days after the peak of ovulation. But I have irregular cycles, is there any way to calculate ovulation? Yea! Irregular cycles are not a cause for concern. It may even go through your head: I want to get pregnant and I can’t, because I have irregular cycles, but these cycles do not always bring problems.
It is up to the woman to know her body and understand when fertile days happen . The mucus of the fertile period is very characteristic and even if you do not have this mucus abundantly, you may notice greater vaginal humidity, increased libido and may also have some signs such as abdominal pain and even minor bleeding.
A tip for women who don’t have mucus is to use fertility-friendly lubricating gels like FamiGel . They play the role of mucus, improve lubrication and even increase the mobility of sperm.
I want to get pregnant and can’t do it: aspects to take into consideration
Okay, did you put it into practice and still not have the expected result? We will assess the situation as a whole. The normal time frame for getting pregnant naturally without questioning possible reproductive health issues is 1 year or 12 cycles. If pregnancy does not happen during this period, some questions should be evaluated:
1st – Time without contraceptives: Some women stopped taking contraceptives a very short time ago! So the term may extend a little longer. Some medications, such as contraceptive injection, for example, may take longer to leave the body.
Usually there are 3 to 6 months of time to clean the organism completely from the medication, be it oral or injectable. But we must know that the good indication that the body gives contraceptive detoxification is the cycles.
If they are well regulated then their fertility may be in full swing. If 1 year includes this period with contraceptives, you may not have had the opportunity to get pregnant yet. They say that the longer a woman takes contraceptives, the worse it is, but it is not true. It all depends exclusively on your body releasing the injected or consumed medication.
2nd Flow and menstrual cycle: Are you the regulated type? Do you menstruate every month or do you have crazy cycles? This would imply a faster result for pregnancy! However, as previously said, it is not impossible for a woman to get pregnant with irregular cycles, she would just have greater difficulty.
Now, the quantity and appearance also say a lot about your hormones! Women with a small amount of menstruation may be experiencing a moment of low estrogen , which in turn is indispensable for ovulation.
Therefore, a cycle with much less intensity followed by similar ones, should serve as a warning. A woman who has a reduced menstrual cycle for no reason (contraceptive drugs) should visit her doctor for a hormonal checkup . Against the low flow is the intense flow.
As my wise mother says, neither 8 nor 800 will do. So if your flow has increased too much it may also be indicative of a problem. It is up to you to talk to your doctor to check what is going on.
3rd Companion: If your husband already has children, know that this is not a reason to beat your chest proudly and put the whole blame on you. That would make you think a few times: I want to get pregnant and I can’t, it’s all my fault… But no!
Men, even if they have children, can have impediments to the pregnancy to happen. They may develop a testicular infection or even develop a varicocele at some point after they have impregnated a woman. Therefore, it is important that he also feels obliged to be examined. Spermogram on it!
If even after all this you are still unable to get pregnant, a good investigation should begin. A competent doctor should order exams in addition to the conventional ones (hormonal and ultrasound) such as hysteria for example.
The exams will vary according to the patient’s complaints. If nothing is detected in the couple then non-apparent infertility will be diagnosed . But that is after 2 years of unsuccessful attempts .
After that, the couple can become pregnant at any time, but they can also choose to take more invasive attitudes such as treatments with programmed intercourse, for example, and also who knows in vitro fertilization. But everything was decided together with the doctor. Another reminder, if you have tried for “long” 3, 4 months is not a reason for despair! Remember the period of 12 cycles ok?
A good tip is also to look for a doctor who understands you, who does not criticize you and helps reduce your anxiety. Speaking of which, not thinking 100% of the time about getting pregnant, takes the focus off the subject and can help the waiting time to pass more quickly.
Anyway, do basal temperature, do yoga, work and direct your life to other environments, also use lubricant gels friendly to the tempting ones like FamiGel too, it can help.
This will also help to take the pressure off the wait. Pregnancy comes at the right time. As much haste as we have, it is sometimes a test to exercise patience and why not say faith? Have faith dear friend. If you charge yourself so much, you will not have time to enjoy all the good that this experience will bring you. 4 magical ingredients for tempting:
Faith, Focus, Patience and Strength in the wig!
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.