The Wait For Pregnancy, Fourteen Years!

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Hello, girls my name is Valeria N. Silva Santana I am 30 years old, I am from Campina Grande PB, but I have lived here in São Paulo for 16 years. I was tempted for 14 years, each delay of the monster was: “Am I pregnant?”. Then I would rush to do the pharmacy test, and the result would be negative but I wouldn’t give up! I went to the laboratory and did a Beta HCG because I thought I could be with a few days and so the negative. I was anxious waiting for the result and then I would look for a giant negative when the result opened. Wow, there my world collapsed and I was so sad … But I knew deep in my heart that I couldn’t give up.

Then the years went by and I was in the same situation, I delayed my period and I ran and took the pharmacy test . Of course, it was negative, I went and did the BHCG again, but it never went beyond that until I looked for a great GO that asked me for several exams. I did it and everything was ok with my uterus and tubes, only one thing was detected, my uterus was retroverted but Drº. said it was normal I could get pregnant.

Valéria waited for her dream pregnancy for 14 years

My husband at the time refused to take the exams and then I kept it in my head, finding and saying to everyone that the problem was really mine. In 2006 I was under treatment taking Provera and Diane, but suddenly I started bleeding. There were days in bed and then  the doctor said he couldn’t have any more children! The I read I died with grief … But God spoke: “do not give up daughter that your time will come!” But then I let time speak, I didn’t avoid it at any time. Then after 14 years I decided to separate from the person I was married to. After about 4 months of separation, I became pregnant , except that my job at the time demanded a lot from me. I couldn’t hold it and I lost the baby,I got bad again. At the time I lived on the north coast of Caraguatatuba SP, and my sister lived in Guarujá SP, I hadn’t visited her in about six months or so and that’s when I traveled to Guarujá and then finally met my current husband.

After 2 months living with him, my period was late and I soon thought “I am pregnant”. But then again negative … I never gave up, and my current husband his dream is to be a father, when menstruation was late he told everyone that I was pregnant. Then we finally decided to come and live here in São Paulo, and after 8 months of trying my POSITIVE finally arrived! Emphasizing that my show has always been irregular, as our wonderful Paty says that her monster is like a roller coaster, mine was worse than a roller coaster, I got 2 years without menstruating! The gynecologists I consulted with said that this was normal. But anyway, after 14 years I finally got my MIRACLE.

Today I am 10 weeks old, and one thing I tell you girls who are trying to never give up on your dreams! Ask, pray to God that He will never forsake any of your children. So girls date, date , because your miracle is very close. I hope my story will give hope to all who are still trying to conceive.
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Valeria N. Silva Santana

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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.

Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

Dr. Alexis Hart

My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

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