First Day of Class – How to Face That Scary Day?

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He just doesn’t know what it’s like to have your heart squeezed for hours on end, counting the seconds to end the period who is not a mother. After giving your son a tight hug and a smack kiss, who is often so excited about the first day of school that he barely says goodbye, you leave apprehensively wondering how he will deal with new friends and the new teacher.

Schools and teachers have excellent tactics to hold the little ones’ attention and make them want to come back the next day. Of course, there are those who do not feel safe away from their mother at first, especially if it is the first day of school in their life. With these obligatorily a little more patience and care so that in the place of interest and excitement, traumatize the child making it time to go to school a session of torture.

The first day of school is not easy for anyone, be it small children, teenagers and even teachers. After all, it is a day to know who will spend an entire year sharing his life and his new learnings. Affinity can happen right from the start or it can take a few days or months or it just can’t happen. After all, there are many different children, with different genius and education, and at the same time that friction can happen for this reason, it can be a very valuable lesson for those who are in character formation.

Learning how to deal with differences is fundamental for any human being, so the school goes beyond doing a lesson, playing and learning new things. School is a place to learn how to socialize , socialize with other people and especially know how to share.

Child Crying to Go to School – What to do?

And every day when it comes to putting on the uniform to go to school the show begins. Tears, tantrums tantrums and the like became part of the routine, leaving not only the stressed child like the mother, father or guardian who will take him. What to do in such a situation?

If the child has never been to school, you can still understand that he is not used to the new routine and patience, a lot of patience will be essential to adapt this new phase. A lot of conversation and encouragement will have to be part of the day-to-day, especially each time the class returns. Never parents and guardians should show insecurity or sadness when leaving him at school, as this can generate even more fear making them think that they will not return to search for him. Encourage them to speak and remember the names of teachers, friends and what they have done throughout the day. Make him see how nice and fun it is to be in schoolsharing his time with other children. In the case of children who are starting a new school after a change of address, that is, for whatever reason, it is a little more complicated. The child already starts the year frustrated that he will no longer see his old friends and will not live the old school routine, so much dialogue and support from the new school will be necessary.

For younger children, the adaptation period is essential for getting to know teachers, new friends and also the new environment. Some may be stimulated in the first few days and adapt easily, others end up having more difficulty and cannot accept change so easily. A good conversation with the teacher, informing about the difficulty of leaving him at school can be important. In this way, not only do parents create this stimulus for the little one to accept the new routine, but the teachers will be more attentive in helping him feel more comfortable and happy to be there with the new group.

One thing is a fact, patience should reign in any case and situation as the child will adapt to the new space and new life over time. Some parents even give up taking their children to school, thinking that they are not prepared to face and end up postponing a situation that they will have to face sooner or later. So face the situation head on and overcome this stage with much affection, patience and above all with the certainty that it will end soon.

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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.

Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

Dr. Alexis Hart

My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.

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