I have been married for 11 years and have known my husband for more than 20 years. I married my friend lol.
We lived together for 2 years and we married in 2003, he was a convinced bachelor and I was a convinced spinster too lol, so it was never in our plans to get married and have children, but things were happening and growing within us.
At 32 I started to freak out, my biological clock was runningand yes I tormented him until he said let’s go then. And ready we started our attempts and I got pregnant at 33 years old. I didn’t have many setbacks, the most serious was the six months, I had an accident in the kitchen and I had third degree burns and I got to burn my eyes too, a big scare, but everything was fine. Believe me, I stayed until the eighth month without knowing what the baby’s sex was, so the layette was practically yellow, white, green and brown lol, I only found out because I had colic and went to the hospital. , came in with a medicine to make his lungs faster … everyone apprehensive inside the ultrasound room, grandma … dad and the doctor said he was fine, do you want to know the sex?
Clarooooo in chorus we practically screamed, look over there and put it on the screen is a big boy and a big mom !
I did the prenatal care preparing for natural childbirth , but after 39 weeks I couldn’t get my GO scheduled for delivery, I went to the appointment and she told me better to have a Cesarean and scheduled for the other day. I cried and kicked, but she explained the reasons and we reached an agreement. I told her that if something happened to us, the casino in hell lol, but I made it clear that our lives were in her hands and I my family knew where she lived kkkk
We were always tough, we fought a lot for things and we didn’t let it go cheap or anything and it wouldn’t be different with our puppy, but the doctor kept calm, talked to her husband and we went there the other day 6 in the morning to the hospital . I woke up in a bad mood, after all it wasn’t my dream, but what interested me is that he was born well and I didn’t care what the type of delivery would be. He has always been and will be my priority, I did not think I was stupid for the decision or main men as some staunch activists say.
I respect the choices and I want to be respected for mine too !
My kid was born beautiful, a big brother and soon showed that he was already a kid, he was born and was already peeing at the doctor. The quietest kid in the maternity ward, everyone wanted to be with him. The nurses came into the room and said: Mother, let’s take him as our marketing baby, let’s demonstrate with him how the baths that mothers should give at home will be, and there he went, I think that he took so much bath today with 7, he runs away from shower lol
Since then, he demonstrated that it would be peaceful, he didn’t cry when he was born, he sneezed his APGAR was 9 in the first instant and 10 in the next instant and me and the crazy husband. My God, Doctor, is everything okay? Won’t he cry? Go wait and see a lot and laugh. In the maternity hospital, it was just peaceful, but she cried for 3 months straight , absurd colic , which reminded us of the face of the GO lol. I nursed him as soon as he was born and after returning to the room.
After completing 3 months, as if it were magic, the chororo ended and then we could enjoy the most relaxed and laughing kid we could have had. So it was like that, it was not a dream delivery, but it was an extremely loved and desired boy. I had an extremely calm cesarean , I had no pain, I was walking back and forth the same day, the next day I already had the brace on, my scar was imperceptible and most importantly my son in my arms <3
Mother of a boy
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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.