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When we are younger we always think about being a mother and the cold in the spine hits even more when we are a mother for the first time. We are thinking about names, at the moment, what will be the circumstances in which the positive will arrive, what will the news be like … Anyway, we were imagining and idealizing a perfect situation in which everything will be like a fairy tale. But what about when not? When does any problem or even an invisible infertility come into play when you want to be a mother for the first time? How to deal with the tempting feeling in this delicate phase of women?
First, the psychological can work favorably because initially we are calm and optimistic that everything will work out, then the months go by and then that enemy of so many women can appear. Do you know anxiety? She herself can take all of our nerves to a deplorable state and then, being a mother for the first time can become a very complicated mission.
The top of the list goes to the factors of anxiety and nervousness for those who want to be a mother for the first time. You only know what it’s like to be a temptress who is one of them and who spends cycles thinking about the positive dream and it never seems to arrive! So trying to calm down and be as calm as possible can even help you ovulate more easily, did you know? Why do so many couples get pregnant after an adoption or even if they don’t want to get pregnant, would it be unfair? We are faced with so many cases of people who throw their babies away, throw them around and we who want so much to have a love of our own, a piece of us to call a son we couldn’t and why? What are the psychological problems that may be associated with this delay in pregnancy?
What physical problems can we face when we decide to be a mother for the first time?
The problem of fertility when it appears is complicated at first to deal with. Problems can bring us the feeling of defeat and even incapacity, especially when the problem is of a more severe order such as endometriosis and hydrosalpinx for example. Most of the time we don’t even know that these problems are there, and then when we decide to get pregnant and the exams happen this bomb falls on our heads.
Anyone who is tempted knows well what it feels like to be distressed at that moment, that of being a mother for the first time and nothing is going right, sometimes even worse because of the discovery of problems that were unknown until then. The important thing is to be aware that not everything can go as we think and program and that regardless of the problem that appears at this important moment, it is taken naturally and with great determination.
One of the most common problems encountered by women who want to be a mother for the first time is polycystic ovaries. Certainly the biggest complaint of difficulties encountered by women, as it provides some difficulty in getting pregnant, polycystic ovaries can prevent women from conceiving for the simple fact of limiting ovulation. Not that they prevent pregnancy, but they can delay this period if not treated correctly.
One of the most common obstacles these days is hormonal changes . We know that for an ovulation to happen correctly, the hormones must all be in harmony, and without that the encounter of the sperm with the egg can be a somewhat complicated mission. Therefore, it is necessary to investigate if the menstruation of the aspiring first-time mother is unregulated and, if necessary, to treat correctly for an advisable period to recover ovulation.
And the husband, what to do when it is time to be a father for the first time or again?
Speaking of the two parts of the tentative relationship is the partner, he should also be investigated by a doctor if the couple has more than a year of trying to get pregnant and nothing happens. Sometimes the problem can be in the man and then for years and years, the woman charges herself, blames herself and judges herself without her having any problem. As the pregnancy is the result of a couple’s relationship, both must be up to date so that there are no surprises and an unexpected result.
For the man the spermogram is enough to know if everything is up to date, maybe some blood tests, it is the responsibility of the doctor who is treating a couple who wants to get pregnant for the first time.
Some couples can also mutually experience infertility. Both men and women have hormonal problems or more severe and then a doctor is the best friend. Choosing a doctor is not always easy, but with perseverance and a lot of patience, a good specialist can solve the problem or at least direct the couple’s fertility investigations well.
Once the reason for the infertility is identified, it is necessary to do the treatment correctly for the time determined by the doctor. As much as the anxiety of being a mother for the first time slams the door every day, treating yourself is the best thing to do. I’ve seen so many cases of women who have polycystic or another problem related to longer treatments that resist having a treatment for a period of six months … If the treatment is going to solve your problem why not do it correctly? Better to take a break from the attempts and then resume with all health restored. Take care, treat yourself and then go on to active again, if you like it first of all it can bring you a pregnancy more quickly and in full health.
Looking for dating on fertile days is a tip that should always be remembered and also keep calm so that you can achieve one of the greatest dreams of a woman, being a mother for the first time.
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My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.
