Anxiety is one of the main factors that accompany girls, women who want and seek pregnancy. Most of the tempting, are anxious by nature. It is the urgency that the biological clock awakens in women when it comes to motherhood. Often the desire to be a mother is so great that it ends up getting in the way, making the woman more anxious and the subject of motherhood / pregnancy starts to persecute her wherever she goes. It is not for nothing that we begin to see pregnant women wherever we are, and it seems that the world decides to have children. All of her cousin friends, sisters-in-law and women around her decide to be a mother overnight. It is not easy to contain the anxiety about being a mother at these times. But how to control the anxiety of having a baby in the womb, generate and have that baby in your arms after birth?
I confess, it was not the safest of tempters. I’ve even posted a text here about the crazy things I did when I was trying to get pregnant and I swear it’s all true! Tentative anxiety killed me and sought support from training companions. We were together at all times, the good times when a positive happened, the bad times when a cycle full of hope in becoming a mother became a beautiful disappointment and even in the most delicate moments when one of the girls lost the longed-for baby. Anxiety brought me many experiences, even symptoms of pregnancy even without menstrual delay.
But why is being a mother so difficult? I have it as a theory and I have proven with great difficulty that the same anxiety that makes the women try to come together in order to help each other in the search for pregnancy, can become the villain when it comes to getting pregnant. The psychological can get in the way and yes! It is difficult to speak of this, for I was not the most calm of creatures. I cried, gave up, went back to training … But the desire to be a mother was stronger than all that, and as soon as I calmed down, the positive dream came. As I always say, if you want to be the mother of your husband’s son, you will love it and the best part of being tempting has to be the training. Dating with the love of your life for pleasure, giving yourself at the moment of sex for love, with desire and desire, is the best of the methods to get pregnant.
I want to be a mother, but how can I calm down?
I hated myself for not having the patience of Job that some women in the group I attended had, I wanted to be like that too! But I couldn’t wait for 10 dpo to take the pregnancy test that had been stored since the beginning of the cycle. I thought: I want to be a mother, but how do I contain myself? How can I not blame myself for not being able to get pregnant when I want it most? The urgency to see the positive is immense and the reality does not always correspond to dreams, to all the plans that we make to go well.
It may seem like bullshit but I always got the positive after relaxing and going through other moments in life. It is no wonder that many women with no apparent infertility problems manage to get pregnant in fright after adopting or having a serious problem in life and leaving the pregnancy in the background. Of course, the duty of those trying to conceive is to keep all their hormonal and ultrasound exams up to date and date on the right days. As my wise mother says, leave your 50% in order that God will make the other 50% . As I said in the post tips from tempting, we can give nature a helping hand by doing our part and let it do its part. I once heard a phrase that left an impression on me, and it started to accompany me for the rest of my life:
God does not take, he fancies!
So, dear tempter, know that God has not forgotten you , he just knows the right time to send you the dreamed little angel that will bring with him the greatest love that a person can feel in the world and make him discover what it is like to be a mother !
My name is Dr. Alexis Hart I am 38 years old, I am the mother of 3 beautiful children! Different ages, different phases 16 years, 12 years and 7 years. In love with motherhood since always, I found it difficult to make my dreams come true, and also some more after I was already a mother.
Since I imagined myself as a mother, in my thoughts everything seemed to be much easier and simpler than it really was, I expected to get pregnant as soon as I wished, but it wasn’t that simple. The first pregnancy was smooth, but my daughter’s birth was very troubled. Joana was born in 2002 with a weight of 2930kg and 45cm, from a very peaceful cesarean delivery but she had already been born with congenital pneumonia due to a broken bag not treated with antibiotics even before delivery.